The work of the ministry, work at it. You do not bless other people by drifting through life. Ministry is sharing God with people at the point of their need.
Now about this matter of a mystery, it doesn’t represent something you cannot know. When the Bible uses the word mystery, it’s something that you can’t know by yourself but which God wants to open up to you.
What I am raising is that the power of Christ’s resurrection is power to share the very presence and power of the Lord Jesus Christ to needy, hungry lives.
Being honest with God involves stopping manipulative behavior — trying to manipulate people. It involves stopping the idea of explaining away what God’s word is plainly saying.
How to give of yourself to someone: notice them, spend time with them, listen to them. The characteristics of being a good listener. Live your life in a way that the message is believable to them.