It is a joy to be included and wanted. Jesus wants us to be with Him. We can be comforted that this life isn’t all there is. We have sorrow in bereavement, but it is without the hopelessness. When Christ returns the dead in Christ will rise first and receive their glorified bodies.
The thing that glorifies Jesus is the opening of human hearts to Him by faith so that eternal life is received and they in turn honor the Savior who saved them by His grace.
Spend time with your Lord; let Him love you; let Him shine on you; let Him whisper His Truth to you. Then, write down the things that He whispers to you so that you can think about them afterwards and won’t be gone in forgetfulness.