All things work together for those that love God with an agape love. That’s what’s God is looking for. That pure, deep, sweet, Calvary love, that the Holy Spirit of God puts in your heart when you trust Jesus Christ, the Savior. You can’t love God unless God puts his Holy Spirit within you.
Get into the Word. Wait on God. Tell him the brutal truth about the situation. Don’t trim it. Don’t try to dress it up. Just tell Him how it is and then wait until the Spirit of God prays through you and you will have your answer.