He works His Will in your personality. The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long suffering, gentleness, goodness, meekness, temperance, faithfulness.
Life is cruel oftentimes. But the joy that you have in Christ doesn’t depend on things or people… it depends on Him. And He hath said, “I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.”
Your relationship with each other is to be based on that wonderful relationship that God has had with you. Divine love. Start at the cross, beloved. And then God will enable you to love other people.
Eternal life is not simply a duration of life that lasts forever – it is that, but it is also a quality of life, the very slice of deity implanted in your own personality.