The first thing in this matter of fearing God is to realize that God is almighty, He is sovereign, He is supreme, He’s the creator — you’re the creature, He’s the potter — you’re the clay.
True sacrificial love has to come from a changed heart, changed by the Holy Spirit. Your heart’s attitude towards others will change as you pray for people in your life.
God’s work in our lives involves getting rid of all behaviors such as manipulating others and hypocrisy. The definition of guile: getting what you want at someone else’s expense.
The Word of God is alive and active and doesn’t change. It will change our lives as we read it, memorize it, meditate and get it into our unconscious minds.