Growing up in Christ. You need to decide what it is you’re standing for and stand for it instead of allowing yourself to be moved by every influence that comes along.
Courtesy is still in fashion in heaven. Courtesy is still something that God likes to see — so be courteous, tactful, and sensitive in the living of the Spirit of God.
Crank the importance of the Lord Jesus into your value judgment system. He deserves first place over other things that might be demanding , but are not eternally important.